This is so inspirational and should be a thing for non-fictional humans too. <<< Everyone is perfectly flawed and broken in their own way. Maybe real life people are so hard is because we can't see that side of them.
Sometimes I'll act as if I'm another character, talking to the character that I can't name. I act as if I'm telling at them, and suddenly I be like, "Why would you do that, [insert random name i come up with on the spot] .