Nightstand about the same height as the top of your mattress or a bit on the lower side (to make it harder to bump your elbow). The bottom of the lamp shade should be about even with your chin level when sitting up in bed.
Few interior design styles carry with them the glitz and glamour of an entire decade, but Hollywood Regency is making a modern comeback, well after its heyday in the Pinners definitely wanted to get this look.
Calling it now: Super-chunky knit blankets are going to be everywhere pretty soon. You could buy one of these beautiful, extra-snug throws for your home on Etsy for hundreds of dollars — or, even better, you could make one yourself.