Afternoon Tea Course Order - I have seen Tea sandwiches on the bottom, Other Savories Middle Plate and Sweets on top plate Scones Devonshire Cream, Lemon Curd and Preserves are served on a separate plate
Replace butter w cream cheese maybe? Tea Sandwich: Cucumber & Chive Butter = afternoon tea Vitelli Vitelli Walsh - Step by step cucumber sandwiches.
For a tea shower- tea bag cookies - cute idea but the recipe is in French. Looks like shortbread cookie dipped in chocolate shaped into tea bag