So true! I'm all about giving people the benefit of the doubt but there comes a point when you realize it's not a one time bad day kind of mistake, it's who they really are slipping through their fake front. Past things that they've done and said all add up and you realize in that final straw moment just how ugly hearted and miserable they truly are.
Seems that most people would say this about themselves... so we should treat each other how we expect to be treated...
I've just had to learn to mourn those losses. For me, nothing will ever equal the bond between the closes of friends. Once lost, I lose a piece of myself, but I gain a plethora of beautiful memories on which to sustain myself.
create your own sunshine - a native oregonian, these are the words I live by ;)
...and talk to the man in the moon. May you grow up with love and gracious hearts and people who care. Welcome to the world little one. It's been waiting for you." Author unknown
"O you who have believed, respond to Allah and to the Messenger when he calls you to that which gives you life. And know that Allah intervenes between a man and his heart and that to Him you will be gathered." ~ Quran 8:24
Don't mistake my silence for ignorance, calmness for acceptance /or/ kindness for weakness.