You are not your body. You are not your name- and you are not your hands. These are all things that we have. You are a soul, a spiritual being, living in a physical body, and been gifted with an intellect.
I am Blessed that my husband is a very loving man. He's not fake. There is jealous "family" that is not happy with their own life, and cannot be happy for us. It's ok, they don't matter. We are not perfect. but, we are perfectly in love!