I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.
Let people do what they nned to do to make themselves happy, mind your own business, and do what you need to do to make yourself happy. Why is this so hard for some people? Isn't that what we all want? To be happy?
Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past, stop planning the future, stop figuring out precisely how we feel, stop deciding exactly what we want, and just see what happens. - I call it "Living in the moment and enjoying life.