"Fuck excuses, learn to admit when you fuck up." This includes trusting the wrong people (and subjecting yourself to abuse). If you never admit you're involved, the same shit will happen to you, ad infinitum.
Music video by Evanescence performing What You Want (Lyrics Video). (P) 2011 The copyright in this sound recording is owned by Wind-Up Records, LLC under exclusive licence to EMI Music Germany GmbH & Co.