If it's not making you better, it isn't love. True love makes you more of who you are, not less. - Mandy Hale (If thats the case i think i must only be capable of 'loving' myself. I always lose who i am in the place of girlfriend or lover.
Everyday I stop myself because that there's nothing for me at the other side of that bridge. Your success is based on the bridges and happiness you build. Know when to let that bridge burn& stop trying to save it.