This isn't meaning material things, it means 'real' things needed for a loving, treasured and respectful relationship. Deeds, qualities, thoughts and characteristics of a decent and mature man who has a loving and good heart.
No worries there. Social media and trash was more important then his wife, more important then me and even more important then any of the trash he has on there and cheated with. They only matter while he is stalking date begging for dates.