“The art of living... is neither careless drifting on the one hand nor fearful clinging to the past on the other. It consists in being sensitive to each moment, in regarding it as utterly new and unique, in having the mind open and wholly receptive.” ― Alan Wilson Watts
There's always that one man! Has a heart of gold. He's been hurt, he's trigger-shy, and his first instinct is to guard his heart. Gold doesn't tarnish, but it wears and dents. Don't cause more dents. Protect and treasure it.