If we worried about what we see in the world around us rather than what we want the world to see when it looks at us, it would be a better place. It is possible to be more than just an oxygen consumer.
It's NOT about titles, career choices, or your extreme vanity so as to always seek attention. That does not make a meaningful life. That makes a sad and pathetic way to live. Its not about trying to out do others and having your nose so high up in the air that you are constantly judging others and looking down on others because you have the idea you're always better than everyone else and putting your views on others. Lonely existence isn't it? So, so sad! Life is about sooo much more.