I LOATHE guilt trips. Makes me resent the person/people.

I LOATHE guilt trips. Makes me resent the person/people.

I don't respond well to guilt trips. In fact, they make me want to spend even less time with you!

I don't respond well to guilt trips. In fact, they make me want to spend even less time with you!

They are ridiculous. Next time someone tries to send you on a guilt trip tell them you will pass on the guilt trip and wait to see what's behind curtain #2, that should get the point across.

They are ridiculous. Next time someone tries to send you on a guilt trip tell them you will pass on the guilt trip and wait to see what's behind curtain #2, that should get the point across.

I thought I had seen everything there was to see about narcissists and then I see this - Y E S ! ! !

I thought I had seen everything there was to see about narcissists and then I see this - Y E S ! ! !

Never take a guilt trip                                                                                                                                                                                 More

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It’s OK to give up on things that aren’t getting better. – Move forward with no second-guessing, no guilt trips, no hesitation. Your purpose is to let go and then recreate yourself anew in each moment. There’s a big difference between giving up and knowing when you have had enough. Sometimes we have to move on to move forward. -

It’s OK to give up on things that aren’t getting better. – Move forward with no second-guessing, no guilt trips, no hesitation. Your purpose is to let go and then recreate yourself anew in each moment. There’s a big difference between giving up and knowing when you have had enough. Sometimes we have to move on to move forward. -

I won't let anyone guilt trip me for expecting to be treated with respect, consideration and compassion.

I won't let anyone guilt trip me for expecting to be treated with respect, consideration and compassion.

Manipulation via Shaming and Guilt-Tripping: Using the Conscience of the Neurotic against Them by Dr. George Simon at http://counsellingresource.com/features/2009/02/24/shame-guilt-neurotic-manipulation/

Manipulation via Shaming and Guilt-Tripping: Using the Conscience of the Neurotic against Them by Dr. George Simon at http://counsellingresource.com/features/2009/02/24/shame-guilt-neurotic-manipulation/

.This is not a problem. While I accept myself today there is always room for being a better me. Goethe's quote reflects that: “If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that.” Think Pygmalion or "My Fair Lady." The problem is: When I am coasting through life, I'm going downhill."  ozzie Mindfulness.com

.This is not a problem. While I accept myself today there is always room for being a better me. Goethe's quote reflects that: “If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that.” Think Pygmalion or "My Fair Lady." The problem is: When I am coasting through life, I'm going downhill." ozzie Mindfulness.com

Wish more people (like family members) would understand this instead of doing the nagging/guilt-trip thing. Life gets busy. Staying in touch isn't always the priority. And that's actually okay.

Wish more people (like family members) would understand this instead of doing the nagging/guilt-trip thing. Life gets busy. Staying in touch isn't always the priority. And that's actually okay.

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