Manipulation via Shaming and Guilt-Tripping: Using the Conscience of the Neurotic against Them by Dr. George Simon at http://counsellingresource.com/features/2009/02/24/shame-guilt-neurotic-manipulation/
SORRY I Don't Do GUILT TRIPS 8x10 Digital by MikesCrimsonFlames
I LOATHE guilt trips. Makes me resent the person/people.
Guilt Trips & Narcissistic Abuse. This is a common tactic the alienating parent uses on the child.
Guilt is something that eats at me from the inside out. When an abuser knows your weaknesses, they'll play on it so to be sure they destroy the parts of you that they are intimidated by! Flip 'em the ol' bird and flick it off like a booger!
So f#$%en true!! You allow it therefore you get to deal with what comes with it.