I cant imagine spending my life with someone who doesnt know how to be silly and laugh.and who makes me laugh! Always find a reason to laugh. It may not add years to your life but will surely add life to your years.
I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.