“The time to stop being offended is now. It ultimately is impossible for another person to offend you. Indeed, believing that another person offended us is fundamentally false. To be offended is a choice we make; it is not a condition inflicted or imposed upon us by someone or something else. ... You and I have the power to choose how we will respond to an offensive or hurtful situation.” –David A. Bednar www.lds.org/general-conference/2006/10/and-nothing-shall-offend-them
