You can choose to live your life with the joy of the front row or solemness of the third row. The choice is yours. That's me in the front row with my joy. Those are my coworkers in the third row. Every day is a struggle to keep them from killing my joy.
There are a few out there who just love and live for the drama. They just cant get out of their own way. Much like a car crash, can't help but watch. Ahhh but the peace when you just turn it off. and walk away from all their misery.