"The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them." ~ Thomas Merton, No Man is an Island
No-Sew Two Layer Fleece Poncho. A great alternative to coats because you can strap them into their carseat underneath the poncho! It is not safe to put a bulky coat on a child in a carseat because you have to loosen the straps, which is dangerous.