It was a surreal period in time. No one can even try to imagine what it is like until they also are forced to endure it. This day for me as 23 years ago on May still feels wrong that my dad died that many years ago.
When grief and pain comes through loss, no matter what circumstances, patience and understanding is truly needed. Something horrible happened to the person with PTSD. They desperately need and DESERVE a strong, loving support system.