I tell this to My husband all the time. So proud of the man you are. Love you JWM! Remember how far you've come, not just how far you have to go. You are not where you want to be, but neither are you where you used to be.
Your gut feeling is always rite.don't doubt it or try to convince yourself otherwise because you just don't want that feeling to be true.you'll save yourself a lot of time and pain because when all is said and done you'll know your instinct was rite.