Compliment Jar: "Each time we get a compliment for walking in a nice life, or doing a great job in specials class etc they earn a star. When they reach 15 stars, we will have a small celebration (early recess, puzzle time, computer lab time)"
"You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one." Stop thinking about the "what if". Reflect on "what is" and create the "what's next". Be in charge of your life. Start your next chapter. Be the author of your own story.