I love my kids, but like I've told them, "I am not your friend, I am your parent. You HAVE friends. Too many kids have parents who want to be their friend, when what they really need is for their parents to act like PARENTS." My kids soo agree.
"Listen to the Wind, It Talks. Listen to the Silence, It Speaks. Listen to your Heart, It Knows" . The wind, silence and even my own hart tells me all the same thing;