We're the most driven, analytical, socially isolated people in the world. If we've done the research and figured it out for ourselves, we're right 98% of the time. You haven't lived my life--don't doubt me and don't be a bitch/dick about it. Anyone born after 1990 is a member of the last generation in the US for whom knowledge and treatment of Autism/ASDs was not widely known or available. Most of us slipped, not through the cracks, but through a gaping diagnostic and treatment chasm.