Vaelin, 6 years}} She holds my hand as we walk through the garden, pointing the different flowers and telling me about hem —her favorite past time. After a little bit she pauses by a flower, dropping the ground beside it and pulling me into her lap. "Not every woman loves flowers, Vaelin. Some appreciate their beauty but don't find anything particularly special about them. It's you job as a man to find out what she does love and to do your best to make an effort of giving her that."