It all starts with the appreciation of your body (curvy or not) and THEN you strive to make it even better than it already is. Being curvy is a glorious thing. the media always portrays women as stick figures. Embrace your body!
I like people who I can occasionally have really deep conversations with, and at the same time joke around with them. One of my best friends I can do this with. She is very wise but also knows how to make me smile!