You change for two reasons. Either you learn enough that you want to, or you've been hurt enough that you have to. (I'm hurt enough to need to change. But I must learn enough of myself to decide what and how to change.
Reminds me of a quote- if the whole world was blind, how many people would you impress? These quotes really get me thinking about my actions and words and who I want to be, and what I stand for. Be your own hero- inspire others.