Masculinity is okay, toxic masculinity is not. It is just as important to support men and end the toxic masculine stereotypes as it is to support females. Again, being masculine is okay, but *toxic* masculinity effects everyone horribly.
The idea that women cannot be abusive and controlling is again, part of patriarchy. Male victims should not be ignored. Feminists care about this. You use "men are abused and raped too" as an excuse BUT, OH, LOOK HOW YOU HANDLED THAT.
(gif set) "Okay, so it seems like we either address the root of this problem and fight entrenched sexism in our society, or all women simply change their names to John." Gender Wage Gap John Oliver - Last Week Tonight