I go out of my way NOT to treat people in an ill mannered way. Not everyone believes in the golden rule though and if I should ever change my mind, and treat some others EXACTLY how they treat me, they absolutely would hate ME!
If you pretend to be someone your not to make people like you. And you have to be different for them to like you and they don't then they aren't a real friend. So just be yourself and i promise people will love the real you! So please be yourself.