Don't ever try to stuff yourself into one of society's neat little boxes. Be you! True beauty is embracing your uniqueness & realizing that you are beautiful just the way you were created.celebrate yourself!
While clearly, the answer is for me to get healthy and lose weight, I am no longer tying my self-worth to my weight. I am stopping the cycle here not only for my sake, but also for the well being of my children, and the world around them.