"as much money and life as you could want. the two things most human beings would choose above all. the trouble is, humans have a knack for choosing precisely the things which are worst for them." Dumbledore, Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone
A correction of the common adage to "look like a girl, think like a man/boss." This gives ANYONE the freedom to do what THEY want, throwing gender roles aside. The original post is problematic, from the word girl to man.