YES!! I was told once that I am an "alpha" female, but I now realize that his definition of "alpha" and my definition of "alpha" are on opposite ends of the spectrum. I am an alpha b/c I have no time for other people's shallow b.s. I'm real, authentic, and honest in my dealings with others. Most of all - I know MY worth, and b/c of that I refuse to settle. Period. Hence = alpha.