these mountains that you are carrying, you were only supposed to climb. ~Najwa Zebian~ living without love hurts. carrying regret and heartbreak for those events only worsens the pain. learn to let go.
It's not a competition about getting your partner to want you more or vice versa. If it's the case where your boyfriend takes you for granted and you're in a 'comfortable' zone, try some of these tips to reverse it and put some spark in your relationship.