"A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it just blooms." --- Everything is you and God thing, and there is nobody else involved. So comparing or competing is just waste of time. Keep focusing on yourself, focusing of loving yourself.
Life as I sometimes have known it. this is the fabulous tiny painting by Norman Rockwell: "Little girl looking downstairs at Christmas Party" George Lucas collection - I've been lucky to admire at the Smithsonian American Art Museum in Washington, DC,
The purpose of life is not to just be happy. The purpose of life my love, is to feel. You must understand that your pain, is essential. - Make me feel something, and I'll want to keep you around forever.