I could have formed a lot of wrong opinions and missed out on a lot of very important people in my life if I had listened to what others said instead. This is exactly what I do, give people the benefit of the doubt.
You don't learn valuable life skills from avoiding life but rather showing up for life everyday ready to take life on with all its challenges and vital life lessons. That's what makes a warrior with the battle scars to prove it.
Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got - Robert Brault some people need to learn morals and manners. When you're wrong you're wrong accept it and do something about it. If not it doesn't matter life goes on.
I cant imagine spending my life with someone who doesnt know how to be silly and laugh.and who makes me laugh! Always find a reason to laugh. It may not add years to your life but will surely add life to your years.